support hearing...
i had my support hearing this morning, via phone conference.
just listening to him talk made me feel ill.
he was so smug and so arrogant.
honestly, if i didn't recognize his voice, i wouldn't have known it was him.
he said during the hearing that i took the girls and abandoned
him...leaving him with the house and all payments associated with it.
i abandoned him.
what a concept.
he wouldn't admit that he moved up there to be with his girlfriend, and that he was living in her house that was already established, and paid for. he said that this hearing had nothing to do with that. he also stated that he took a $26,000 pay cut to move up there, and that he couldn't afford to live. essentially, he went from making $91,000 a year (including military retirement) to $65,700. And he's having trouble making it. He said that i left him broke, leaving him with marital bills.
who filed for bankruptcy? oh yeah...that was me.
he also said (in one breath, mind you) that he would always take care of his girls, and that I knew that. He also said that Brittany would be emanicpated in June, and that all support for her would be terminated.
Huh?
He said that he would help Brittany and Shannon with college, but that Brittany needs to get off her butt and start filling out apps for grants and financial aid.
We have no dental insurance, and he couldn't/wouldn't answer why he did not tell us...we've been asking since november. the worst part is, he isn't going to provide any for the girls, either.
what a guy.
i know you have to be in as much shock as i am...i don't know what happened to the guy i used to know, but he's long gone...looking out for #1 who happens to be last on all of our lists.
oh yeah...he got his wish...they cut the support that he has to pay...not that he's been paying it all anyway. should have known.
really, its not about the money...not at all. i just don't understand why he can do what he wants, and has been for the past two years...probably longer...and there is no recourse...nothing matters...nobody cares...he just keeps winning.
Why?
just listening to him talk made me feel ill.
he was so smug and so arrogant.
honestly, if i didn't recognize his voice, i wouldn't have known it was him.
he said during the hearing that i took the girls and abandoned
him...leaving him with the house and all payments associated with it.
i abandoned him.
what a concept.
he wouldn't admit that he moved up there to be with his girlfriend, and that he was living in her house that was already established, and paid for. he said that this hearing had nothing to do with that. he also stated that he took a $26,000 pay cut to move up there, and that he couldn't afford to live. essentially, he went from making $91,000 a year (including military retirement) to $65,700. And he's having trouble making it. He said that i left him broke, leaving him with marital bills.
who filed for bankruptcy? oh yeah...that was me.
he also said (in one breath, mind you) that he would always take care of his girls, and that I knew that. He also said that Brittany would be emanicpated in June, and that all support for her would be terminated.
Huh?
He said that he would help Brittany and Shannon with college, but that Brittany needs to get off her butt and start filling out apps for grants and financial aid.
We have no dental insurance, and he couldn't/wouldn't answer why he did not tell us...we've been asking since november. the worst part is, he isn't going to provide any for the girls, either.
what a guy.
i know you have to be in as much shock as i am...i don't know what happened to the guy i used to know, but he's long gone...looking out for #1 who happens to be last on all of our lists.
oh yeah...he got his wish...they cut the support that he has to pay...not that he's been paying it all anyway. should have known.
really, its not about the money...not at all. i just don't understand why he can do what he wants, and has been for the past two years...probably longer...and there is no recourse...nothing matters...nobody cares...he just keeps winning.
Why?
posted by Janet @ 11:35 AM
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